Already a board member of the hunger-fighting nonprofit Share Our Strength (SOS) long before he thought of TNFL, Kostroski says that after the NFL announced in 1989 that Minneapolis would be the host city for Super Bowl XXVI in 1991, he immediately began thinking of hosting a party in town that would feature chefs from the then 28 NFL teams and use SOS’s Taste of the Nation model: Get sponsors to pay for site rental, marketing, supplies, and other logistics and turn over 100 percent of the proceeds from party-goers to charitable causes.
Beyond the food, music, and drink, attendees would get to mingle with famed football players, past and present, who would help serve food from the restaurant booth representing the NFL city team they played for.
Like his professional honors, his list of industry, professional, charitable, and civic involvements would rival his culinary awards.
He is active in the Minneapolis’s business community. He has helped arrange “Holidazzle,” a holiday parade during the Christmas season in downtown Minneapolis. He is a member of the board of the Edina Soccer Association and past chair of the town’s Chamber of Commerce.
He has been active with the Minneapolis Restaurant Association, the National Restaurant Association, sat on the board of Share Our Strength, and has won top honors from foodservice journals and mainstream consumer media.
But it’s his humanitarian efforts that have made him an industry icon.
The philanthropic awards he has garnered include the Cornerstone Humanitarian of the Year (2004) award from the NRA, the Pope John XXIII Humanitarian Award at Viterbo University, and just last year, the James Beard Foundation’s Humanitarian of the Year award.
But the award he wants the most is to get this year’s TNFL off the ground without interruption, delay, postponement, or a single offside penalty.
Gena Berry, founder of Culinary Works, a culinary consulting, food styling, event management, culinary training and chef media coaching group based in Atlanta, has worked with Kostroski as chef coordinator for 18 of the past 21 years of TNFL’s existence.
She says that understanding why Kostroski is able to inspire so many people, who travel on their own money to support him, has a lot to do with the man himself and his talents to motivate.
Berry says Kostroski was a keynote speaker at a conference of catering executives in California she attended fresh out of college, talking about hunger and malnourishment. Though she had been aware of the problem in America, she had never heard anyone make the topic more poignant.
“It was as if he was preaching right to me,” she recalls. “Naturally, I’ve heard people talk about hunger before. But that day, it was like the gospel. You could say I drank the Kool-Aid.”
She wrote Kostroski later from her Atlanta home, telling him how much his address had inspired her and asking him how she could get involved.
A few weeks later, Berry says, Kostroski wrote her back, saying he was coming to Atlanta the following year and would love to have her cook with him at an event to raise money for hunger relief.
Little did she know that that event would be the third outing for TNFL, accompanying Super Bowl XXVIII in 1994. Berry has been involved every year since.
Berry says what a lot of people don’t realize about TNFL is that the participants, whether they are huge celebrity talents like perennial presences Bobby Flay or Drew Nieporent or obscure cooks deep down the line from a barbecue shack, the cooks and volunteers treat the weekend like their own party or vacation especially when they stage their own party that Friday night.
“It’s like getting away for summer camp,” Berry says. “You see all of these big-name chefs who work hard, and now they get a chance to play hard with buddies they haven’t seen in a year; they are raising money for hunger relief; all cooking different styles, and different foods in this fabulous event.”
What is also not known about the participants is that almost all of them leave town before the Super Bowl is actually played.
“No one gets tickets to the game and quite honestly, most of them have to be back at their own restaurants,” she says. “Some don’t even rent rooms but work right through to Saturday night and leave for the airport.”
Veteran foodservice management expert Robert Nyman, principal of the Nyman Group, Scottsdale, Arizona, says he knew of Kostroski’s reputation for nearly 20 years and was honored when Kostroski called him to solicit his participation in the planning committee when TNFL was setting up for Super Bowl XLII in 2008 in Glendale, Ariz.
“I have a tremendous amount of respect for Wayne,” Nyman says. “I believe in the philosophy of his organization and the benefits it provides to so many people.
“But I just love watching him at work. I believe the TNFL is his mandate in life because he believes in it so much. And the reason for that is that he loves the hospitality business and is passionate about it.
“He transcends symbolism to the point of practicality so you understand what needs to be done in real concrete ways.”
Almost no one within reach of civic or charitable food networks starves in the U.S. today. But the irony that mystifies Kostroski is that never before have Americans been fatter, less fit or less nutritionally aware of the consequences of their bad eating habits.
As a result, Kostroski says TNFL’s mission is being tweaked to raise nutritional awareness, teach poor families how to cook more healthfully and stretch their food dollars, and lobby food manufacturers and some chains to do more to see that nutritious food eclipses their fatty, salty and sugary fan favorites.
“In a real sense, our mission and dedication is stronger than ever,” Kostroski declares. “We look at childhood obesity, for example, and it stems from the fact that millions of children are overindulging in foods they should not be eating, but are within the budgets of their families.
“It is ironic that in a nation with access to the most nutritious foods and educational programs to raise awareness, we are fatter than ever.
“So one of the things we are doing going forward is to see that our food manufacturing partners become more involved in the problem and that our food banks, food pantries, and churches get access to foods that do not contribute to the problem, but help solve it.”